Introduction

Family law is a complex and specialised field of law that governs a wide range of personal and relational issues—from marriage and divorce to child custody and maintenance. For clients and even legal professionals alike, understanding the precise legal terminology used in family law is crucial for clear communication, informed decision-making, and effective legal strategy.

This article provides an intensive, accurate exploration of key family law terms, unpacking their legal meanings and contextual significance within South African law. It aims to equip readers with the knowledge necessary to navigate family law proceedings with confidence and clarity.


Core Family Law Terms and Their Legal Significance

1. Marriage

In South African law, marriage refers to a legally recognised union between two persons, governed by one of three legislative frameworks:

  • Civil Marriage under the Marriage Act 25 of 1961
  • Customary Marriage under the Recognition of Customary Marriages Act 120 of 1998
  • Civil Union under the Civil Union Act 17 of 2006 (including same-sex unions)

Each has distinct formal requirements, rights, and consequences.


2. Divorce

Divorce is the legal dissolution of a marriage, governed primarily by the Divorce Act 70 of 1979. It legally ends the spousal relationship and addresses associated matters such as:

  • Division of marital property
  • Maintenance obligations
  • Custody and care of children

Divorce requires judicial intervention and a court order.


3. Custody

Custody refers to the legal rights and responsibilities a parent or guardian has regarding the care and decision-making for a child. South African law prefers the term “care”, focusing on:

  • Who has the day-to-day physical care of the child
  • Who makes major decisions about the child’s welfare, education, and health

Custody is determined based on the best interests of the child.


4. Access / Contact

Access or contact refers to the right of a non-custodial parent or third party to spend time with or communicate with a child. This can include:

  • Visitation schedules
  • Phone calls or electronic communication
  • Participation in significant events

Access is a right that supports the child’s relationship with both parents or caregivers.


5. Maintenance

Maintenance is the financial support one party is legally required to provide to another, typically:

  • Child maintenance: for the child’s basic needs such as food, education, healthcare
  • Spousal maintenance: support from one spouse to the other during or after marriage

Maintenance orders are enforceable by law.


6. Best Interests of the Child

A fundamental principle in family law requiring that in all matters concerning a child, the court must prioritise the child’s welfare above all else. This principle influences decisions on custody, access, and protection.


7. Parental Responsibilities and Rights (PRR)

Encompasses all duties, powers, rights, and responsibilities a parent has towards their child, including care, contact, guardianship, and maintenance. PRR can be shared or assigned exclusively.


8. Guardianship

Legal guardianship confers the authority to make decisions on behalf of a child when parents are unable or unavailable. Guardianship can be granted to relatives or appointed by courts.


9. Antenuptial Contract (ANC)

A prenuptial agreement entered into before marriage, specifying the marital property regime—usually whether the marriage will be in or out of community of property or subject to accrual.


10. Community of Property

A marital property regime where all assets and liabilities of spouses are combined into one joint estate. Absent an antenuptial contract, marriages are deemed to be in community of property by default.


11. Out of Community of Property

A marital regime where spouses keep separate estates, with no sharing of assets or liabilities, unless accrual is agreed upon. This is typically governed by an antenuptial contract.


12. Lobola

A traditional practice involving the payment of cattle or money by the groom’s family to the bride’s family as part of the customary marriage negotiations. Although culturally significant, it does not confer legal ownership rights but has social implications.


13. Protection Order

A court order issued under the Domestic Violence Act 116 of 1998, designed to protect individuals from abuse, harassment, or threats by restricting the perpetrator’s behaviour.


14. Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR)

Processes such as mediation, arbitration, or collaborative law used to resolve family disputes outside of court, often preferred to reduce conflict and promote cooperative agreements.


Importance of Understanding Family Law Terminology

Legal terminology carries precise meanings that impact rights, responsibilities, and outcomes. Misunderstanding terms can:

  • Lead to unrealistic expectations
  • Impair decision-making
  • Cause miscommunication with legal professionals
  • Result in adverse legal consequences

Clear comprehension supports informed consent and empowers clients throughout their legal journey.


Conclusion

Family law terminology is the language of rights, duties, and protections that govern familial relationships and disputes. Mastery of this language enables individuals to navigate complex legal processes confidently and effectively.

Legal practitioners must ensure clients understand these terms clearly, using plain language without sacrificing legal precision. This fosters transparency, trust, and better outcomes in family law matters.